Let’s DIve In
With a spirit as vibrant as her message, Nthabiseng Sethoga emerges as a beacon of hope and resilience in the Mrs. South Africa 2024 competition. Known affectionately as Nthabi, her participation is not just about personal glory; it’s a platform to challenge societal norms and inspire those battling with body shaming. In this illuminating interview, Nthabi shares her journey, her mission to uplift and empower, and the vibrant path she carves both in and out of the spotlight.
Some Insight
Nthabiseng Sethoga is a registered counsellor and an inspiring figure whose life’s work is dedicated to uplifting those around her. Her commitment extends beyond her professional endeavours into her personal passion for fostering a supportive community among married Christian women through her organisation, Chosen Wives. Nthabi’s approach is hands-on and heart-led, influencing not only her community but also every individual she encounters.
The Interview
What inspired you to participate in the Mrs. SA competition?
“My inspiration to join the Mrs. SA competition stems from a deep desire to serve as a beacon of hope for those grappling with the challenges of body shaming. Participating in this competition is not just about personal growth; it's about using this platform to empower others to embrace their unique beauty and to foster self-acceptance. It’s also a journey of self-discovery and self-affirmation for me, pushing me to grow stronger and more confident in who I am.”
How has your journey in the competition impacted your personal and professional life?
“The first four weeks post-casting were overwhelming. Adjusting to the new demands alongside my family, friends, and other commitments was challenging. Mrs. SA has taught me the importance of also prioritising myself.”
What challenges have you faced during the competition, and how did you overcome them?
“Often I'm asked, 'How did you do it? How is it possible that you're a Mrs SA Semi-Finalist?' as eyes scan my body. I've come to expect this, and I always respond with a smile, 'Mrs SA celebrates diversity—they don't discriminate based on race, weight, or modelling experience.’”
Can you share your daily wellness routine?
“Each day starts with prayer, followed by either a gym session or a 5km walk. I incorporate stretches and read daily motivations to start my day right. Taking my blood pressure medication and vitamins each morning is also a crucial part of my routine.”
How do you balance your mental and physical health, especially in preparation for a competition?
“I avoid negative thoughts and conversations, turning to journaling and daily Bible readings to refresh my mind and strengthen my spirit.”
What are your go-to beauty and skincare routines?
“My routine is simple yet effective: wash, scrub, tone, and moisturise.”
How do you define beauty, and how does it reflect in your lifestyle?
“Beauty is the affirmation I give myself in the mirror each morning. It's about inner confidence, not external pressures.”
What beauty trends are you currently loving, and which ones would you like to see make a comeback?
“I'm all for the sophistication of high-waisted pants—they're timeless.”
How would you describe your personal style, and how has it evolved over time?
“My style has evolved significantly; I adore traditional clothes and am fascinated by different fabrics. Although I never wore shorts before, I've grown to love them.”
Can you share a memorable fashion moment from your participation in Mrs. SA?
“During a sponsor content creation day in Rosebank and Sandton, I wore a royal blue dress with a tail that perfectly suits my style. Feeling like I was walking on air, I received numerous compliments on the photos I posted.”
What fashion advice would you give to someone looking to find their own style?
“Wear what you feel comfortable to wear, don’t be pressured by what people say you should look like.”
As a role model, what message do you want to convey to women and young girls?
“Remember, there is only one you. Never strive to be a photocopy of someone else. Embrace your uniqueness, and don’t measure yourself against others.”
How do you use your platform to advocate for causes you're passionate about?
“Through radio and newspaper interviews, and personal conversations complemented by social media posts, I advocate for the causes close to my heart.”
Can you share an instance where you felt you made a significant impact through your advocacy work?
“After a radio interview, I received heartfelt messages, including one that said, 'Nthabiseng, thank you for doing what you are doing, thank you for bringing hope to my life. I was about to give up.”
What are your goals and aspirations beyond the Mrs. SA competition?
"I aspire to continue being a beacon of hope for those who feel lost and to open a counselling practice as a registered counsellor."
How do you plan to continue making a difference in your community or field of work?
"I aim to increase awareness of the challenges associated with weight loss. As an author, I use my platform to share my story and inspire others."
Is there a project or initiative you're currently working on that you'd like to share more about?
“My friends and I collect baby things for a Shelter in Kempton Park.Also, I am a founder of an organisation called Chosen Wives since 2014, it is a group of Christian married women who are passionate about “doing marriage and family life together". We encourage each other, share wisdom and advice. We have a Whatsapp group, we also meet face to face to catch up, go camping, pampering, we host high tea and family day yearly. This year we are having a special 10yrs anniversary celebration, and we will also be crowning Mrs Chosen Wives 2024.”
What's a fun fact about yourself that not many people know?
"I have a knack for organising surprise events like lunches and showers, adding a touch of joy to the lives of friends and family."
If you could have dinner with any three people (dead or alive), who would they be and why?
“Tshegofatso Gaelae , the current Mrs South Africa, she is an inspiration to me, she is determined and focused. “
“Maggie Matshego, my mother. I want to compliment her for being a strong woman, she married young and had challenges, divorced young too, but she was able to raise my younger sister and myself. She also instilled good principles in us.”
“Unathi Nathi, current Miss South Africa Plus. I call her “my Queen”, she is selfless and has turned past pain to present purpose. She has a passion for holistic Women Empowerment.”
Can you tell us about the inception of your business/entrepreneurial journey? What inspired you to start?
"I launched my business to distribute the book I authored in 2022, aiming to deliver words of hope to those who feel hopeless."
What unique challenges have you faced as a woman in business, and how have you overcome them?
"Book sales can be seasonal, but I stay motivated by cherishing the positive feedback from my readers."
How do you balance the demands of your business with your personal life and commitments, especially during the Mrs. SA competition?
"I optimise my time and prioritise effectively to maintain a balance between my business activities and personal commitments."
As a leader, how do you foster a positive and productive work environment for your team?
"I lead by example, serving others and ensuring our environment encourages growth and positivity."
What does empowerment mean to you, and how do you empower others through your work or business?
"Empowerment means sharing knowledge and experiences to uplift each other. I share my journey of overcoming depression to inspire and support others."
How have your experiences in the Mrs. SA competition influenced your approach to leadership and business?
"The competition has reinforced my resolve never to give up or give in, regardless of the challenges I face."
Wrapping Up
Nthabiseng Sethoga stands as a paragon of hope and empowerment, her campaign in Mrs. SA 2024 is just one chapter in her ongoing story of inspiration. Her future goals include opening a counselling practice and continuing her advocacy work, particularly focusing on weight loss challenges and the empowerment of women through education and support. Nthabi's journey is a compelling reminder of the power of resilience, the importance of self-acceptance, and the transformative impact of leading with love and wisdom.
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